(memo to my friend's and to me)

   Treat yourself as you would the love of your life- be kind, be forgiving, know what makes you happy and do it. Enjoy your own company, get along with people but mostly get along with you. Fill your heart with love of self to the brim that it overflows so you may then give love to others with ease.





You are what you love, not what loves you. It is yours. You're free to love whoever you want, regardless of how THEY feel. It feels every bit as good to love as it is to be loved and the former is something YOU get to decide. Love is unlimited, unending, uncontainable. It knows no conditions, for it has no conditions. Try not to give it boundaries.





Orient yourself to the best part of the people around you; should that become difficult, be reminded of God dwelling within them. And the God dwelling within you. Don't be quick to judge, show compassion to the bitter, angry and jealous- they are going through a lot of pain. Look with eyes of love, speak and hear with your heart. Nothing brings out the best/worst in another faster than your attention upon it. In every man an angel stirs.And everyone's just doing there best to be happy.




Take risks. Life happens to those who live on the edge. The only certainty is that nothing is ever for certain. Security does not exist. Other people are not possessions. You are love, love that can't be destroyed, love that cannot fade or be taken away. What do you need protection or assurance for? Nothing and no one can hurt you save your own mind. Doubt your doubts. Never regret. And love wholly, dangerously, completely- don't hold back.





Stay open, lightning could strike. Be ever hopeful, glad and believing. Despite all the drama and all the negative experiences the mass consciousness can feed you, it is a beautiful world. To be cynical about anything especially about love is to die many years before you hit the grave. Add passion, add meaning to every thing that you do- take time to pause and enjoy the moment- even the ones that seem dull, that's what it means to truly live. Don't settle for "okay", rattle the stars.






I wish you every happiness today and always.





(no regret)

I don't regret much of my life.. I've never been one to hold onto regret. But I feel like, for so long.. I hated the world and how it hurt. I feel like I let so many of the wrong people matter and so many of the right ones down..
And at some point on my way to right now, I finally realized the harm people mean to have.. in their words and actions.. "dirty auras" clouding my vision. and as soon as I got away from all of that.. I got back to what I knew was real, real love, pure and honest.. with the people that have nothing but peace and a sense of happiness to share.  I feel so blessed to have found them and to be graced by their love and the touch of their lives in mine. and if I were to regret anything its those minutes or hours or even days of my life that I gave away to those who had nothing but harm to give back.. but I'm not complaining as I've recognized my mistakes and I've learned through them, let no one pull you down, Since i've finally hit this high, high point in my life where I feel like, no matter how high you reach.. you can't touch me :)


I hope you all find the same kind of peace, without pulling anyone down on your journey there..